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During the 4th Tripartite Talk, GJMM has been immensely pressurized to focus only on the creation of Gorkhaland, besides, the conclusion of the Meeting seems to be only TALK on POLITICAL LEVEL in next round. Do you think 4th Tripartite Talk has been successful?
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Are we the people of Darjeeling normal!!

By Upendra on November 11,2006

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ARE “WE • THE PEOPLE OF DARJEELING” NORMAL????

According to Zenneti, the famous social behaviour theorist, human beings can be broadly categorized into two groups, normal or abnormal. But unknown to him,there is a special group of people who do not fall in either of the category. That special group is us i.e. We- the people of Darjeeling; “If we belong to neither of the group, then what are we???” You may ask. But, I am not an expert on human behaviour to say what exactly we are - normal, abnormal or something else …… I leave the judgment in your hands.

Normal people have a threshold limit for tolerance, when pinched normal people tend to feel hurt and when pushed to a corner they tend to fight back. You cannot take normal people for granted, as they are intelligent, can take care of themselves and can demand and protect their rights if need arises. Normal people tend to act and react; they strive to make something better of their life and their surroundings, they set goals and targets and give their best shot to achieve it. If things don’t turn the way they had expected, they change their approach or they change their goals and targets. We - the people of Darjeeling, don’t do that, we don’t act in the first place, forget about reacting. We don’t bother to strive higher, and we don’t put in any effort to achieve anything. We - the people of Darjeeling, are immune to almost everything; and I sincerely and strongly believe that we are not “normal human beings” ask me why??? …

* Like a ping-pong ball, our fate and future is being tossed from end of the board to the other by, the Centre, State, Mr. Ghishing; from Gorkhaland - Hill Council - Sixth- Schedule-Article 371; what do we do??? Shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* Our people toil day and night in the tea gardens, to make profit for somebody who does not even know where exactly Darjeeling is; depending on his/her mood the owner shuts down the garden, rendering hundreds of our people jobless, with no money to feed their family…. Our people commit suicide as they are unable to see their family dying because of hunger… and what do we do??? Shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* Our demand for a Central University is negated by offering outdated Master’s course in English to two of the colleges, and the same demand for a Central University is made by the Chief Minister for Jalpaiguri; what do we do??? Shrug our shoulders - and move on with our life.
* Our leaders demand income tax exemption, for hotels, resorts, precision engineering, biotechnology, flour and rice mills etc. How many of our people own hotels, indulge in findings from biotechnology, or precision engineering???? We don’t bother asking for whom is this exemption being asked and why??? We simply - Shrug our shoulders - and move on with our life.
* We have to celebrate a particular festival, in a particular style, we cannot pray to idols, we have to pray to stones and get drunk, as it signifies our tribal status, so comes the dictum from his highness (mahamahim) Mr. Ghishing; in our deepest hearts we laugh at his stupidity, even question how dare he??? But in reality we - Shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* The free press, the fourth estate, the pillar of a democratic society, is threatened against writing anything about the tyranny, atrocities, stupidity. The press gets mad, crazy and they threaten lawsuit, but the ultimate out come??? We shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* Landslide - so many of our people have lost their lives, almost every two years we have a tragedy, the municipality can prevent it by imposing stricter norms, but it does not bother, what do we do??? Shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* Water - We don’t have water to drink, or money to start a drinking water project... but somehow, somewhere there’s enough money to keep on building Bhanu Bhawan for past 7 years non- stop. Do we question how that’s possible??? What do we do??? We shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* Our cinchona plantation and lives of thousands of people working in the cinchona plantations has been hanging in mid-air for past decade, how many of us are aware of the problem??? And those that are aware what did we do??? Shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* Most of the hotels/ travel agencies in our place are owned or leased by people from the plains, they earn the profits, our people are employed as cleaners, waiters, washers, watch men, the money meant for Darjeeling is drained back to the plains what do we do??? Shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.
* Darjeeling is warming up faster than anyplace in the world, mindless urbanization, pollution, deforestation is taking its toll and the day is not far when it may not be possible to live in Darjeeling any more, how do we react??? Shrug our shoulders - and move on with life.

Don’t agree with me…. Well carry out this experiment… Try asking any one, why there’s no water in the house or why he did not shave or why he/she did not clear his/her exam this year or why he/she did not sit for WBCS??? Trust me, 9 out of 10 will give you this reason - “what’s the use??? System nai tyesto cha.... Hami lai ta victimize gardi halcha”. Perhaps the easiest way out of any question that involves answering to “WHY NOT???”

Tell me sincerely do you still think we are normal human beings????

For me I guess, we are Para-normal, we are a cut above the rest of human society; we are tolerant, friendly, easy to please and happy-go-lucky. We do not intentionally harm others, and if some how we offend some one else, we apologies profusely. May be that’s what makes ours a soft society, a society which is like a herd of sheep - easier for the shepherd and his dogs to control.

Lastly I leave you with immortal lines by Theodore Roosevelt “Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat”.

Hope! I made some sense.

Upendra

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  • image the fact that you have disabled the comments show that Darjeeling is not democratic at all, I had once commented that DT was the only place that citizens could practise true democracy,our own Hyde Park, and that is also venting out their anger and frustrations at our leaders and the situation, but from hence DT has proved once again that Fear reigns supreme in our beloved hills, I am sorry for whatever compulsions that you are facing but I plead with you to remain steadfast in your belief for doing what you have been doing for the past years, anyway if it is not possible to start the comments sections,for reasons best known to you, I still thank you for all you have done and still keep on doing despite the odds, take care and Viva la Freedom......No more Fear
    (Posted by oookk, December 19, 2009, 10:27 PM)
  • image I dont Know I'm normal, para normal or abnormal but as far as my knowledge Im human being So whatever UPENDRA have mentioned the points in the article is almost true. so keep posting like this type of article so that through this way our people come to know where actually thay are living, I agreed with @Julie comments, if u submit this article in the Himalaya Dharpan then it would more better. Whatever the people says but my conscience permit me to SOLUTE U FOR UR GOOD JOB.
    (Posted by Sachin Tamang, December 15, 2009, 4:12 PM)
  • image I came across this article today only. The satire is fine. However will the educated class of Gorkhas take some social responsibility to improve the condition of their poor bretheren and mis-guided youth? Or will this generation also perpetually blame the "other" for the mess the Gorkha society finds itself now? My Bong friends collect even small amounts to open some library or sponsor meritorious but poor students in their respective villages or do some such things which gives a signal of hope and care. I sincerely believe it is the educated class who can set the right values and not the politicians, to improve the lot of Darjeeling.. It is always easy to blame the "other" for all the trouble and get popularity. The real battle is within oneself and within ourselves.
    (Posted by N C GURUNG, December 9, 2009, 2:14 PM)
  • image Darjeelian's are very much normal...i do accept it as a fact but they are pissed....i want GORKHALAND but not in the cost of anyone's blood....Lets condemm the dictatorial aspects of GJMM. The leaders r fucked up....ever1 knows and there i no point discusing about it....i hate them......
    (Posted by ronit pradhan, November 29, 2009, 9:18 AM)
  • image the write up of Upendra is wonderful & interesting. but the fact is we 've to face the reality & fight for it. & the present leader is BIMAL GURUNG. All the best, support to him.
    (Posted by joshua karky, October 11, 2009, 6:22 PM)
  • image Good job. Well written with lot of theories. Now a little bit of practical...is it Ok? When a child is offered food, but the child instead of accepting that happily starts either creeping/cribing/comparing what other children have in their plate .... what type will you categorize them? Decision is left to you. Anyway the consequence can be of different nature - 1. Either the parent makes him understand that whatever he has in his plate he should be happy and try to enjoy that and work towards better. OR 2. the plate of food is taken away from him and let him feel the hunger so that he never compares and cries with what he do not have. Decision is yours. Anyway this does not mean that you be contend with whatever you have but you can always be polite to ask for something better and work hand-in-hand to make it better. Logic never ends and this cry for something more will also never end. I am leving it upto the author to decide how he wants to solve this. Best of luck.
    (Posted by An Indian, August 12, 2009, 4:13 PM)
  • image Mr.Upendra,The way you has written artical about darjeeling,form there i can find how much you grow up your knowledge,may be you don't know how difficult to work in other city,and you are thinking money is every thing to live a life happily,but Mr. you are sick of the money ok,see if dajeeling women's are going to do something great things then y u joules?first of all you don't think about darjeeling people bcoz they can think better than you,they have lots of knowledge to think and they knows about darjeeling,and wat they are doing that also they knows but in between y u are interfering them,better you search some good job,may be it ill work out for you future,don't waste your time to write foolish articles ok Mr.
    (Posted by shilpa, August 1, 2009, 4:17 PM)
  • image Great article by Upendra. It is very true that there is no more 'life' in Darjeeling. Queen of Hills, is what we knew when we were kids. Now we are grown up enough to understand that it has become a 'Land of Fools'. Gorkhaland agitation is just a waste of time, career of students, hardearned money and many more...they are uncountable. GJM should be happy at least they are part of an independent country. What sense does it make if a separate state is given? Does GJM Chief have the qualities of a leader, true Indian to live by the examples set by legends? What a crook he is to set a Women's Army? Sounds funny. Darjeeling is not Isreal where it makes sense to have Women Army Froce. Isreal is a Country and not a hill station like Darjeeling. Let Darjeeling be Darjeeling the way it used to be. Just leave it alone. Let the world once again enjoy the beauty of Queen of Hills, if left any. "Once a Queen, Queen of Hills, Beauty, Beauty that was to last forever, Now you seek and find nomore. What a place it used to be, That shivery weather, Cooling breeze, Blooming flowers, Happy kids. Now nomore you'll see the beauty, The Beauty of "Queen of Hills". It has gone, It has gone with the demand of Pleasure With the Pleasure of Freedom.
    (Posted by Martin Henry, July 28, 2009, 4:38 PM)
  • image Nepalis are not normal they are always having 1000 demands, julus, bandhs. I’m in Kathmandu and it’s pathetic. No one quiet day. They are destroying their education, industry, farming, tourism, development and country. It’s even more pitiful to see them leaving for Middle East countries at the Kathmandu Airport.
    (Posted by Pramesh, July 21, 2009, 11:13 AM)
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